The Best Metals for Engagement Rings: Platinum vs. Gold

Choosing the right metal for your engagement ring is a crucial decision. It’s not just about the look—it’s about durability, lifestyle, and long-term care. Whether you’re drawn to the timeless appeal of gold or the durability of platinum, this guide will help you decide which metal best suits your style and needs.

Selections from our Wedding Band Collection in 14k Yellow, White, and Rose Gold

Why Choose 14k Gold?

Gold is one of the most popular choices for engagement rings, and for good reason. At Laura Preshong, we offer 14k gold as our standard, as it provides the ideal balance of durability and beauty:

14k gold is a stronger alloy that holds up well over time, 14k gold is perfect for those looking for durability. Our "royal yellow" tone is slightly muted but still rich, making it a versatile choice for many styles.

For those seeking a different option, we can also create rings in 18k gold upon request. While 18k gold offers a warmer, more orange-yellow tone, it is softer and requires more delicate care. 18k gold is more expensive due to the higher percentage of gold in the alloy, 14 Karat gold is 58.3% pure gold while 18k is 75% pure gold.

Gold is available in a variety of colors—yellow, white, and rose—allowing you to choose a tone that complements your style.

Of Note: Because white gold can contain trace amounts of nickel, those with nickel allergies may want to avoid it and those with copper allergies may want to avoid rose gold. Yellow gold is hypoallergenic for most people

Platinum vs. Gold: Key Differences

When deciding between platinum and gold, consider the following:

• Durability: Platinum and gold will gets harder over time through a process called work-hardening, making them ideal for daily wear. Gold, while slightly malleable, is still durable and holds up well over time but platinum is a stronger metal.

• Maintenance: White gold requires rhodium plating to maintain its cool tone, while platinum develops a natural patina that some find appealing. Gold and platinum can be repolished to remove scratches and return them to their original luster.

• Cost: Platinum is initially more expensive but may save costs long-term since it doesn’t require replating. Platinum is also denser, meaning a similar-sized ring will weigh more than gold, contributing to its higher price.

• Weight: Platinum is denser and heavier than gold, giving it a luxurious feel, however if you are sensitive to weight you may prefer gold. 

• Hypoallergenic: Platinum is a great option for those with sensitive skin, as it is hypoallergenic.

Pros and Cons of Platinum vs. Gold

Platinum:

• Pros: Hypoallergenic, no need for replating, gets harder with wear, and offers a sleek modern look.

• Cons: More expensive upfront and heavier on the finger.

Gold:

• Pros: Available in versatile colors (yellow, white, rose), more affordable upfront, and ages beautifully.

• Cons: Requires periodic maintenance for white gold and is slightly softer than platinum.

For those with active lifestyles or hands-on professions, durability is key. While platinum is slightly more resistant to wear, any metal offered by Laura Preshong is strong enough for daily wear. Ultimately, choose the metal that best aligns with your aesthetic preferences.

How Metals Age Over Time

• Platinum: Develops a patina over time, giving it a soft, matte finish. Some clients love this unique look, while others prefer to have it polished.

• White Gold: Requires periodic rhodium plating to maintain its bright, cool tone. Without replating, it will develop a warmer hue over time.

• Rose Gold: The softest of the three, rose gold ages gracefully but requires a bit more care.

Matte vs. High Polish Finishes

Any of our rings can be customized with either a matte or high polish finish, allowing you to choose the aesthetic that best matches your personal style. Over time, finishes naturally adjust: matte finishes may develop scratches that create a more polished appearance, while high polish finishes may gain small scratches that give them a softer, matte look. The beauty of these finishes is that they can be refreshed or changed at any time to keep your ring looking exactly how you want it.

Sustainability and Ethical Sourcing

At Laura Preshong, all of our metals are recycled and sustainably sourced. This means no additional mining is required, reducing the environmental impact of your purchase. Whether you choose gold or platinum, you can feel confident that your ring aligns with your values.

Care and Maintenance Tips

Keeping your ring looking its best is simple with these tips:

• Use the ring cleaner provided with your purchase. Soak your ring overnight and gently scrub with a soft-bristled brush.

• Visit us for complimentary professional cleanings and prong checks. We recommend annual prong checks during the first 3-5 years to ensure your diamond stays secure.

• For white gold, check the state of your rhodium plating and bring it in for replating if needed.

• Be extra gentle with rose gold to avoid unnecessary wear.

Trends in Metal Preferences

Yellow gold has been a consistent favorite among our clients for over a decade. Laura’s preferred metal is 14k royal yellow gold, which beautifully complements diamonds. Many clients appreciate the warmth of yellow gold, which pairs well with warmer diamond colors. Platinum prongs, on the other hand, are popular for blending seamlessly with diamonds, while some prefer yellow or rose gold prongs for added contrast.

Customized Bi-Metal Lily Engagement Ring with a 14k Yellow Gold band and Platinum Basket and Prongs

Customization and Laura Preshong’s Expertise

At Laura Preshong, every ring is made to order using sustainably sourced metals. Our low-profile engagement rings and bands are cast in a single piece of metal for added durability. We also offer bi-metal options, allowing you to mix and match metals for a truly unique design.

Conclusion

Choosing the right metal for your engagement ring is about balancing aesthetics, lifestyle, and long-term care. Whether you prefer the timeless warmth of gold or the modern elegance of platinum, Laura Preshong offers expert guidance and sustainable craftsmanship to help you create the perfect ring. Book an appointment at our Boston gallery or on Zoom to explore our collection and find the metal that suits your love story best. Browse our full collections of Engagement Rings and Wedding Bands which can be made in any metal of your choosing!